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Here our Chief Executive Rebecca Porta shares some tips for getting your man to see your GP.

 Persuading your partner or loved one to visit the GP can be notoriously difficult. Many of us acknowledge that men simply don’t want to go – they will postpone the visit, “get better”, or simply become too busy. However there are times when a visit to the GP should not be put off. Here are a few tips for getting your man to the GP:

·     Make it easy for him – give him the number and address of the GP. Go with him and offer to stay during the consultation.

·     Remind him that ignoring a worrying symptom or problem won’t make it go away. A visit to the GP will reassure him everything is okay or will ensure prompt attention.

·     Try to understand what the obstacle is. Is he worried about receiving bad news? Is there a family history of illness? Let him know you understand and will be there to support him.

·     Encourage him to write down any questions before going to the GP and make sure he doesn’t leave until he understands the answers.

·     Get informed. Find out as much as possible about his symptoms and talk about  them. But remember not to diagnose.

·      If all else fails use guilt! Tell him you are worried and this is making you upset.

·      Avoid nagging. Be supportive, encouraging but determined.

·      Remember to talk about the visit and acknowledge your appreciation.

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